Updating to capnproto v0.8.0

- Includes some test stabilization
- Fixes manylinux2010 build issues (linker flag order due to old gcc)
- More rigorous python setup.py clean
- Requires capnproto v0.8.0 or greater
- Including system libcapnp include path for import (e.g. import
  stream_capnp)
- Bundle libcapnp .capnp files when not using system libcapnp
- Removing more distutils usage. Now using pkg-config to determine the
  system version of libcapnp (mainly for Linux, but should work on macOS
  with brew)
- Removed dead code

Resolves issues #215 #216 #217
Lots of fixes for Issue #218 (all sorts of retry methods needed for
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examples/async_reconnecting_ssl_client.py

@@ -86,6 +86,7 @@ async def main(host):
         reader, writer = await asyncio.open_connection(
             addr, port,
             ssl=ctx,
+            family=socket.AF_INET
         )
     except OSError:
         print("Try IPv6")