Issue node shutdown on empty workload

Remote pytest_runtestloop requires at least 2 tests, or a test
and a shutdown command. In case of inter test locking, for
example using a file lock, the tests could deadlock, since the
shutdown command would not be enqueued, and the last test of a
worker would never finish, and would not allow another worker
to make progress.

xdist/scheduler/load.py

@@ -178,6 +178,9 @@ class LoadScheduling(object):
                     return
                 num_send = items_per_node_max - len(node_pending)
                 self._send_tests(node, num_send)
+        else:
+            node.shutdown()
+
         self.log("num items waiting for node:", len(self.pending))
 
     def remove_node(self, node):